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(12/20/57 - 1/6/12)

Vital Info


Joanne (cotemomma)


July 13, 2011


East Longmeadow , Massachusetts 01028


December 20, 1957


Cancer Fighter

Cancer Info


Liver Cancer


Hepabilary Cancer


June 1, 2011


Stage 4


07


Grade 3


Yes


Fluorouracil (5-FU), Cisplatin (Platinol, Platinol-AQ), Gemcitabine (Gemzar)


Feeling Helpless


Im not alone even tho I feel like I am most days,,Even when my house is full


understand that Im not going to be good everyday


pancreas, Liver and billarary ducts


donations to american cancer inst.


Dont be afraid to call your doctor and ask for help


Be truthfull




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Posts: 17
Photos: 1
Events: 0
My Supporters: 17
I Support: 17
Comments: 51
Views: 11815
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Joanne's Cancer Blog

Joanne's Memorial
(12/20/1957 - 1/6/2012)


Rest in Peace
by Blogforacure
Peace to Joanne and all her family.
by Ann
For a sweet and gracious lady - and grandmother.
by Helen Marshall

by Cindy
A candle lit in your memory forever.
by 1 Very Palpable Hit
Still surrounded by love and peace
by Bill Curry

Rest in peace forever
by Whyanyone
by Danean
by Elisabeth

by Kelly
You are at peace.
by Sarah Friedman
My deepest sympathy.
by Andrea

Rest in peace.
by Tara
by Yehida
by Angela

by Debbie
by Billan
by Dan J

My Sympathy
by Nancy Glass
by Kathysman
My deepest sympathy
by Joyce In NC

May you rest in peace
by Martha
by MIchelle
Rest in peace
by Eli

Rest in Peace
by Florida Girl
RIP Joanne
by Laurie
by Keith

Sending my love to your family
by Barbara
Rest in Peace Joanne
by Fred
Peace
by Karen

by Ava
by Jessica
by Valerie

May you rest in peace dear.
by Missy
Rest in Peace
by Nicole (Lady Of The Larynx)
by Bgw

Rest in Peace Joanne....By Sara
by Ron Siemientkowski
In memory of a warrior. Peace to family.
by Spongebob46
by Brian

Godspeed, Joanne.
by Mersea
In to the Arms of the Lord
by Sherri
Rest in Peace
by Carol

by Ann
Your journey is just beginning
by Louise
Rest in peace
by Ty-TheWarrior

Light Candle

my name is mathew im joannes son

hello….my name is mathew and i know some of you talked to joanne (cotemomma) she was my mother and im very sad to say she lost her battle with cancer on friday jan. 6th 2012 her family surrounded her with love and peace as we helped her to a better world she was strong and a proud women…even after being diagnosed with stage 4 cancer she was still strong and proud she told me about this blog and how it helped her so much knowing theres others out there just like her…thank you all who helped her vent and talk about this terrible disease she is and always will be my hero

R.I.P
mom

Posted on January 8, 2012 at 5:10:00 PM by Joanne (, 17 comments, 1186 views)
Mersea, Danni Malone sent you a hug.

My heart breaks to hear this news. Your mom seemed like a very sweet lady, who toughed out some incredibly hard treatment. Her love for her family was very clear, and you could tell that it was that love that kept her going. I’m so sorry she lost her battle, and so sorry that you lost your mom way too soon. Please give our condolences to your entire family. Ann

avatar Posted on January 8, 2012 at 5:22:27 PM by Ann

I wanted to share this with you…I wrote a post about the small but special moments in life, asked people to share theirs, and your mom said this: “Watching my sister make potao salad like our mother used to..It was so good and made me feel like a part of my mother was here with us”. I thought that was very sweet.

avatar Posted on January 8, 2012 at 5:28:48 PM by Ann

I am so sorry for your loss….. May god bless her soul. R.I.P.

XOXO
avatar Posted on January 8, 2012 at 5:47:29 PM by Ty-TheWarrior

I am so sorry for this news. Your mom was so happy about becoming a grandmother…thank heavens she got to see her new grandchild. Thank you for letting her BFAC family know…She was a grand and loving lady.

avatar Posted on January 8, 2012 at 5:58:53 PM by Private User

Hello Matthew,
First I want to thank you for letting us know of the sad news of your mother’s passing. We care for each other here. we become like family to each other. So thanks again for thinking about everyone here in all that you are going through right now.
May you all be blessed with peace and continue feeling the love of your Mother. She loved you all so much.
Remember…we are here for you too!

avatar Posted on January 8, 2012 at 6:00:14 PM by Private User

Its always sad to hear when someone losses their battle with cancer. It is such an unfair thing. My heart goes out to you, and your family.God Bless
Claudya

avatar Posted on January 8, 2012 at 6:49:15 PM by Bluewater

While I didn’t know your mom, I am very sorry for your loss, Matthew. May she rest in peace.

avatar Posted on January 8, 2012 at 7:08:03 PM by Private User

I’m so sorry. My thoughts & prayers are with you and your family.
Angie

avatar Posted on January 8, 2012 at 7:10:53 PM by Billan

Mathew I am so sorry to read this. I have tears in my eyes. Thank you for letting us know. I have set up a memorial section on her blog so others can light a candle. Thinking of you and your family.

avatar Posted on January 8, 2012 at 7:20:24 PM by Blogforacure

Mathew, so sorry to hear of the loss of your mom. My prayers are with you and your family. May Joanne rest peacefully.

avatar Posted on January 8, 2012 at 7:53:02 PM by 1 Very Palpable Hit

I’m so sorry for your loss. Your mother is at peace, and will always be watching over you. I’m thinking of you and your family. We are all here if you would like to talk.

avatar Posted on January 8, 2012 at 8:17:02 PM by Sarah Friedman

Thank you for your post, Matthew. This must have been difficult for you to write. Your mom will be missed here. Please stay in touch and let us know how you’re doing. You’re welcome to post any time you want—on a bad day or a good day. We were your mom’s friends and we care about you too.

avatar Posted on January 8, 2012 at 8:26:44 PM by Andrea

I am so sorry. You have my deepest sympathy. My love, thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

avatar Posted on January 9, 2012 at 5:08:36 AM by Joyce In NC

I’m so sorry Mathew. May your mom RIP. I just lost my father in October, its very hard. Take care of yourself and remember what your mom would want. That’s what keeps me going. I know my father would want me to be happy and live a good life.

avatar Posted on January 9, 2012 at 7:26:07 AM by Laurie

Condolences to you Mathew and to the entire family. Though I didn’t have the pleasure of knowing your mother, there’s no doubt she was well loved and admired.
No matter how old one is, loosing your mother is so difficult. And I think you have been extraordinarily generous for taking the time to share your kind thoughts here.
You are always, always welcome to come here anytime you want, and share what ever you want. You’ll find open arms and unconditional support.

avatar Posted on January 10, 2012 at 6:37:51 PM by Nicole (Lady Of The Larynx)

Hi Matthew;

I am so sorry to hear about your Mom. I did not know her very well, but I just know she put up the good fight. I am so happy about her grandchild!

Thank you for writing this, and wish you and your family Peace, and Strength during this tough time.

By the way this is a great place to share your grief, as your Mom said, it is a great place for support!

All my Love
Barb

avatar Posted on January 10, 2012 at 7:30:42 PM by Private User

Mathew, I did not get to know your mom, but I know that she had to be a warrior. It hurts my heart to hear that your mom had to go through so much pain. I hope, that even though I did not get to know her, that you will accept my condolences, and to know that her “venting” was also a way of helping others deal with their fight against the “C.”

Love, Peace and contentment to you and family.

avatar Posted on January 11, 2012 at 9:40:59 PM by Spongebob46

Tired

Had second treatment of the new chemo. Just had my pump off today. Hands and legs very tingly
Very sensitive to cold.. Picked up a book and the pain in my hand was so bad it brought me tears. That hasnt happened before. My nurse said it was neuropathy. I have it in my hands and feet
Food has been an issue for me. I just can’t seem to eat. No appetite at all. So far since June I’ve lost 50 pounds. With this chemo i cant drink or touch anything cold. Finally have an appointment at Dana Farber in. Boston for consultation on a clinical trial at the end of December . So hopefully something will happen with this.
Hope everyone is doing ok. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you
Oh and the most important part of this week is that our son became a daddy! Aiden Michael was born 12/3/2011 7 lbs 19 inches .. And what a beautiful baby…

Posted on December 7, 2011 at 1:55:47 PM by Joanne (, 10 comments, 1325 views)
Rainy threw a punch at your cancer.

Congratulations on becoming a grandmother! We have two new babies coming in our family, and it’s wonderful to have something positive to think about for a change. Are you taking glut amine for the neuropathy? I had a lot of trouble with that as well and taking glutamine powder really helped. It’s standard protocol for many of the chemo patients where I go. You’ve really been through so much, Joanne, more than anybody should have to go through. I really hope they can find a trial that will finally give you a break from this horrible stuff. Hugs and strength to you-Ann

avatar Posted on December 7, 2011 at 2:21:19 PM by Ann

Congratulations on your new little grandchild! Good luck at the clinic. I hope this will be of a great help to you
Merry
Christmas

avatar Posted on December 7, 2011 at 3:47:50 PM by Private User

Let’s see that grandbaby!

So sorry to read about the neuropathy. I agree with Ann, there must be something they can do to help with that!

A big hug

avatar Posted on December 7, 2011 at 4:58:53 PM by Private User

Congrats Grandma! Hang in there and remember the side effects will go away….

avatar Posted on December 7, 2011 at 7:44:36 PM by Rainy

Congrats on the new grandbaby! Good luck with the trial, I hope and pray the can fit you into an ongoing study with meds that won’t cause you so much discomfort. Stay strong.
Charlie

avatar Posted on December 8, 2011 at 7:34:09 AM by Charlie

Thank you everyone It’s one day one step and one breath at a time

avatar Posted on December 8, 2011 at 11:14:57 AM by Joanne

Congratulations on becoming a grandmother Joanne. I will be praying that you get better soon and that the clinic can help you out with the neuropathy.

avatar Posted on December 8, 2011 at 11:53:19 AM by Eli

Happy Birthday Joanne! I hope this one is very special! You are so special to all of us!

avatar Posted on December 19, 2011 at 5:49:19 PM by Private User

Joanne, I hope your day today was very special even though you are not all perfect yet!

A big hug!

avatar Posted on December 20, 2011 at 5:53:41 PM by Private User

You have so been on my mind. Please let us know how you are doing. Sending love!

avatar Posted on January 6, 2012 at 4:26:40 PM by Private User






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